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The Challenge

Calvin tried to out-plan the process, tying his confidence to every application and interview, and even detoured into an unrelated insurance license out of financial pressure.

The Shift

He stopped analyzing and started moving, disconnecting his self-worth from outcomes and trusting a repeatable process instead of any single result.

The Outcome

Calvin fielded two offers at once and accepted a VP of Operations role at roughly a 30-35% pay increase, built entirely on a 15-year relationship.

Olivia Gamber

A Note From The Founder

Olivia Gamber, CEO

Calvin joined us as a VP-level operations executive who already believed in himself. That was never the issue. The issue was that he believed in his own process more than the one that actually works.

He came in with a plan. X, then Y, then Z. He wanted to manage the search the way he'd managed every high-stakes project in his career: analyze it, control it, engineer the outcome. When financial pressure hit, that same instinct sent him sideways into getting an insurance license, chasing income instead of trusting the work he was already doing.

What Calvin needed wasn't more strategy. He had plenty of that. He needed to stop tying his worth to whether a resume got a callback, and start trusting a process that doesn't require him to control every variable to work.

This is the story of what happened when he let go of the outcome and kept moving anyway.

TOO MUCH ANALYSIS, NOT ENOUGH ACTION

Calvin

The process initially, it took me a little bit of time to get my head wrapped around it. I went about it my way, thinking that I need to do X, Y, and Z, and I'll never forget, Olivia, you telling me, you're thinking too much. Just dive in and then just keep things moving.

Calvin

I was so focused on how I needed to generate more income in order to make sure that I had things aligned with this... I went and got this license to sell insurance and jumped into that. And as soon as I jumped in, I jumped out because I realized I am wasting time over here.

“There were no shortcuts. There were no, everything that I was supposed to do here, I feel that I did it. Nothing was given.”

LETTING GO OF THE OUTCOME

Calvin

It wasn't until I actually started to do that when I started to just not focus on the outcomes, not hold on to the fact that I've just submitted resumes and not however many outreaches I had. Just create this factory output kind of mindset where I just do it and I let it go.

Calvin

The mental piece of it was really all about my mindset shift... I didn't connect, I did not tie my confidence. I did not tie my worth. I did not connect my future to the outcomes, right? It was, if I get it, great. If I get a second interview, great. If I get a final interview, great. If I don't, it's okay.

“I did not tie my confidence. I did not tie my worth. I did not connect my future to the outcomes.”

Calvin

Once I did that, I really felt it in my soul that by the end of Q1, I'll be working. And I looked up yesterday and I said, oh my God, we're right where I hit it.

THE RELATIONSHIP AND THE DOCTOR METHOD

Calvin

This happened to be someone that I worked with. We both have businesses. When I met him 15 years ago... he knew how passionate I am, how strong I am. And that's why he picked the phone up and called me. He said, man, I'm gonna be honest, I've been looking for you.

To know that someone else was paying attention, to know that someone else actually wants my skillset, knows my skillset versus getting hired. It doesn't matter to firm, doesn't matter how small or how big they are. You want to walk in there and feel valued.

Calvin

Even in that first meeting that I had with him, I used the doctor method on him to find out where he was and what it was that he was actually in need of... I believe we were able to get there because I used the doctor's strategy to make certain that I had a full understanding and that we touched bases on exactly what he wanted and needed.

“I used the doctor method on him to find out where he was and what it was that he was actually in need of.”

TWO OFFERS, ONE BEST CASE

Calvin

This wasn't just one offer. There were two offers. I had a third offer, but I couldn't accept it because of some constraints. But this right here, this was a best case scenario.

“This wasn't just one offer. There were two offers. I had a third offer, but I couldn't accept it because of some constraints. But this right here, this was a best case scenario.”

Calvin

I remember arriving to boot camp, and as we were arriving, knowing that we're in for probably the most traumatic experience of my life at 18, and seeing other people leave, I will never forget how I felt as I was going in there, watching them leave... Coming in, I felt that same way that I did at 18, going into the military. Coming out of it, I feel the same way. I feel accomplished.

Olivia Gamber

Honestly, 30% increase in this market, you earned it. That takes top-tier talent to make that happen, so seriously, congratulations. You've been a really huge leader in our community.

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Calvin: the process initially, it took me a little bit of time to get my head wrapped around it. I kind of went about it my way, thinking that, you know, I need to do X, Y, and Z,

Calvin: I was so focused on how I needed to generate more income in order to make sure that I had things aligned with this. And even though I achieved that, right, I'll talk to you about this. I went ahead and did what I thought was right. I went and got this license to sell insurance and jumped into that. And as soon as I jumped in, I jumped out because I realized, I mean, seriously, I realized I am wasting time over here. I'm not going to be an insurance salesman. This is not. I was only looking at it to generate what I consider to be income to hold over. And it was more than I wanted, way more from me than I was willing to give them. And so I jumped out of that

Calvin: and I'll never forget, Olivia, you telling me, you're thinking too much. Just dive in and then just, you know, just keep things moving. And it wasn't until I actually started to do that when I started to, you know, just not focus on the outcomes, not

Calvin: once I did that, I really felt it in my soul that by the end of Q1, I'll be working. And I looked up yesterday and I said, oh, my God, we're right where I hit it.

Olivia: where a lot of people are struggling to evolve. They're looking for the hype and the quick fix. And you were looking for the truth and the real deal leaders are ready to pay the price and you paid the price.

Calvin: there were no shortcuts. There were no, it, you know, everything that I was supposed to do here. I feel that I did it.

Olivia: Um, it was, let me just be clear. You earned it. Nothing was given here.

Calvin: Correct. No, absolutely. Nothing was given. I had

Calvin: we've gotten offered the actual letters coming tomorrow and we're looking at a start date of early next week, you

Calvin: it was, yeah, more like 30%, 35%, yeah.

Calvin: even in that meeting, even in that first meeting that I had with him, you know, I used the doctor method on him to find out where he was and what it was that he was actually in need of.

Calvin: I believe we were able to get there because I used the doctor's position or strategy to make certain that I had a full understanding and that we touched bases on exactly what he wanted and needed. And I think it tied him back to that thought, which led us to where we are right now. So for me, career of all played a major part in this, helped me to remain, helped me to get focused and remain focused. It helped me to understand my own value and my resolve at every step, even in the prior interviews that I had.

Calvin: I did not tie my confidence. I did not tie my worth. I did not connect my future to the outcomes, right? It was, if I get it, great. If I get a second interview, great. If I get a final interview, great. If I get a return phone call, great. If I don't, it's okay.

Calvin: it. That's what Career Evolved was for me. Even now, even the transference from being a participant in the community to actually having achieved the desired outcome, which is that position that I want. When I tie this back to my experience with my boot camp, it's the same thing. Going in, I was wanting to be out so bad. I don't want to say I was afraid or fearful, even though, you know, I had fear in my heart. I just always believed that I was going to complete it at a high level. But this is the same thing for me. Coming in, I felt that same way that I did at 18, going into the military. Coming out of it, I feel the same way. I feel accomplished.

Calvin: This wasn't just one offer. There were two offers. I had a third offer, but I couldn't accept it because of some constraints. But this right here, this was a best case scenario.