Quite A While Being Stuck
I talked to a lot of C-suite executives that want to do what you're doing. And there's a lot of resistance around making that shift from being in the C-suite to now standing alone as your own brand... I'd love to hear, how did you overcome that so quickly and just dive in?
Well, I'll say this. I didn't overcome it quickly. What I found was that there was quite a while that I felt very stuck. And stuck in the sense that I had been used to being a part of a larger team. I had been used to having a predefined workload in front of me. I got very used to the systems and the colleagues and the clients and everything that you get comfortable with in a corporate environment.
I went through a number of months just not engaging with people, in the spirit of trying to ask for help or think about building business. There was just a period of time that I'll consider being stuck.
“I think like a lot of people, been in the routine of what's normal.”
The Light Switch
At a certain point, I got to the point where I said, well, this is not where I want to be. I really want something different for myself... The thing that really drew me to your program actually was hearing you speak out on things like YouTube and just looking at ways that people can shift their mind and shift their possibilities.
I love the term self-limiting beliefs, there was a number of things that I just was hung up on myself that was holding me back from taking those steps forward. And the unlock for me was reframing those to where they weren't things that were hindering.
“As soon as I did that, it was almost like a light switch went on that had taken me from a scarcity, hunker down type mentality to much more of an energized and abundance type of mindset.”
From Either/Or To And/Both
So the path I chose for myself was really not thinking about that as my only venue, but rather to think about maybe that, or maybe it's doing some contract work in the meantime. So it was a matter of shifting gears from either or to and both.
As I was looking at ways and people that I might reach out to that I could really serve, I found that there's a big overlap between those same people that I might have reached out to to help ask for help with networking for a job versus those people that I might be able to service as a client. I was really pleasantly surprised to find that people were receptive to talk with me about my new business and ways that I could help them.
A number of those initial conversations I had with people either turned into follow up opportunities or in some cases, I was able to gain new contracts immediately. So I was just very excited about that.
“I'm not calling somebody to have them help me get a job at a place, and that is very liberating.”
Invest In Yourself
I was ready to put in the work. So what I have done before is I've paid people to redo my resume. I've paid people to update my LinkedIn site. I wasn't really vested in it, besides the money. But I very much became vested in, I want to get myself to a new place, a new level of energy, a new way of thinking, basically a new outlook professionally.
“Invest in yourself, and you'll never go wrong investing in yourself, particularly if you've got clarity about what your destination is.”
I am grateful to have been in the program, met the people who are in it... It's one of those things where you just kind of, you need to leave your ego at the door, so to speak, in order to learn and develop.