Hitting The Ceiling
I had been with a company in the oil and gas, the engineering region of oil and gas. It was a small company, I'd been with them for a long time, and had felt that I had reached the upper limits of where I could go in that company and where my value was inside of that company.
Had a background that was broad. And didn't think that was a sellable thing.
You grow in your career, and you just go on... And then you wake up one day and say, what am I missing? And that's really where I was at 44.
As a solo dad, I wanted more, I wanted more for our family.
“Had a background that was broad. And didn't think that was a sellable thing.”
Reading The Market
I have this breadth of knowledge that not many candidates have, but on my resume, it's hard to see that.
I was really working on what my skillset was, how it was viable in other industries and really went to work to try to hone in on what was being received and what was marketable and really reading reactions of those I was meeting with to see if that was received, if that stuck or if it wasn't.
They were receptive when I mentioned this skillset, they were like, meh, yawning at this skillset. So I noted that.
I think this is a piece so many people miss when they're pivoting is getting their message to be relevant... you have to fail fast.
“They were receptive when I mentioned this skillset, they were like, meh, yawning at this skillset. So I noted that.”
The Work Nobody Sees
So what I focused on was the mindset work a lot. The 50 reasons, I really worked in it and those were hard for me. Honestly, I got to about 20, 25 and then really struggled to complete what I wanted, what I felt my value was and would walk away from that list on several occasions.
And then self-limiting beliefs went hand in hand with that. That work really helped me stay grounded in that area as well.
I just want to honor you really quick because it's so clear you did that internalizing your value, really owned it or you wouldn't have been able to push back in the negotiations of the way you did to get them to rewrite the whole job to your standard.
I mean, you're right. I mean, I wouldn't have had that had I not been really working on that grounding and really working on my self-esteem a little in that work.
They had proposed something and I pushed back based on my value... I was happy with how it was, nobody really left that negotiation feeling like they had lost.
“I got to about 20, 25 and then really struggled to complete what I wanted, what I felt my value was and would walk away from that list on several occasions.”
A Job Rewritten To His Standard
I did transition out. I received and accepted an offer for a large consulting firm, huge consulting firm, working in one of their dedicated internal teams.
Is there any last parting words you want to share with anyone who's watching this that might be trying to pivot change careers? They've been somewhere so long and they're just hesitating. What would you say to them?
...Absolutely. And you should make it happen.
If you are true to yourself and know why you're doing and build up the confidence to know that you can, it'll be worth it.
“If you are true to yourself and know why you're doing and build up the confidence to know that you can, it'll be worth it.”
