THE COMMS LEADER WHO COULDN'T SELL HERSELF
I wasn't looking for a recruiter to help me fix my resume... I knew what I was good at. I do communications for a living. I know how to write a resume, right?... But that wasn't going to get me where I needed to go or where I wanted to go next professionally. It wasn't going to help me accomplish my professional goals.
I was really looking for a program that would help me build a skillset that I believed deeply that I needed, not just for the process of figuring out what I wanted to do next professionally, but also what I wanted that skillset would serve me in my next leadership role.
I know when we met, you use the term eldest daughter, hyper-perfectionist and all that intensity... when you're the product, it's almost like hard to detach and look objectively and then not ever think you're ready for the market. So for you, how did you shift out of that perfectionism into, okay, I'm just going to start and just go.
I am absolutely an eldest daughter and I'm absolutely a perfectionist... but some of that is also tied into some pretty real limiting beliefs. Some of which probably many eldest daughters have.
“No is a very scary word for a perfectionist. I had to just start to accept that the more repetition you do, the less no is scary.”
THE DOCTOR FRAMEWORK
One of the very first conversations that Olivia and I had was about executive presence... You literally said to me, the first part of the doctor framework requires you to keep your mouth closed and actually listen. That was a really important, anchoring in that was really important for me.
I was able to anchor back in, tell me about how you see the work. Tell me about the challenges that you see. Once I understand those, I can help you understand the value that I could bring to the problems that you're having.
“The first part of the doctor framework requires you to keep your mouth closed and actually listen.”
“I practice the doctor framework at the fishmonger, I practice the doctor framework at the dog park.”
LETTING GO OF CONTROL
I needed to unlearn some habits and I needed some space to unlearn those... I instead have historically done the opposite, which is if I control every outcome, then I'm going to get to that outcome. But that's just not the way the world works right now. And especially not the way the job market works currently.
And I know you were shopping around at all these places now that you've made this investment. What did you think about the value that you experienced? Is it what you expected?
Yeah, I am so grateful that I did this... my goal in if I was to reach it, it was to have a new job by my birthday, right? And my birthday is in a few weeks and I start four days before my birthday, right? So we've accomplished that goal.
This was never just about finding the next job. It was about finding the next right job.
“This was never just about finding the next job. It was about finding the next right job and quite specifically building a skillset that will carry me through the rest of my professional experience.”
NINE LAYERS AND A SIGNED OFFER
I'm not on payroll yet, but I've signed the offer letter... they were pretty, I think probably more self aware than many about the challenges that they were facing and about being proactive about communicating those because they were really interested in hiring someone who could help solve those specific challenges.
I ended up in a role and that role was actually a posted role, right? This is not a role that was created for me. And yet it is a role that was changed for me. It is a role that was adapted once my value had been made clear. And once that trust had been built.
“When you are able to have that intersection of the right fit and the value, and you're able to very clearly articulate the value you can deliver, that scarcity goes away a little bit.”
