Coming Back Without A Net
Yeah. So tell us, where were you when we met and you started the career process?
So I had been in corporate previously, but I've been running my own business for the past four years. So very much didn't have the network as I was transitioning back to corporate and closing down my business to feel like I had the relationships to come back because they were mostly in the entrepreneurship world...
It wasn't my intention when I started my business that I would come back to corporate, but at the same time, it felt like that was where I needed to be despite the challenges... I felt like I had the background and the resume to at least get several interviews, especially for jobs that I felt like I was definitely qualified, if not overqualified for, but just after doing it myself, it was incredibly discouraging, just not even getting a callback, not even getting any kind of response and having a small young family. I didn't have the luxury of just waiting around forever.
No Man's Land
You've got PepsiCo, you've got TEDx stages, you're an international keynote speaker, like you've got really impressive resume, but then you still couldn't get that attention. So what were some of the challenges that you had to overcome to get on the other side of this?
What a lot of people don't talk about or think about is what it does to you from an emotional and a mental standpoint, when you come in, especially with a certain level of expertise and background, feeling confident, having created results before, and then going into the market and getting absolutely nothing... You start having self-doubt in terms of, am I really as good as I think I am?
When you're not hearing back, you start downgrading yourself and you start looking at, okay, maybe I should get a job that is lower in pay. But guess what? You're still not getting those jobs because recruiters are seeing that you're overqualified and know that you're not going to stay in that job. And they're wondering, okay, what is your intention here?
I can't even count how many applications I did. I barely got any interviews. I think I got about two through that whole process and the opportunities didn't work out. Cause I didn't have a relationship with the people that were interviewing me... I didn't think that my network previously could do anything for me or could support me in any way. So I completely wrote them off, which was a huge mistake.
Choosing To Fast-Track Instead Of Figuring It Out Alone
I recognize that in my time and in running my own business, that you can either continue to figure it out yourself and hope and pray something does happen, or you can pay for someone or find someone who is an expert to fast track your growth. And I think that really factored in me making the decision...
So when I came across [Career Evolved], which a little bit by chance, I think it was an Instagram video, and just jumping on the call, there was an energy of feeling like this was a place where I could not only find the blueprint to figure out what to do next, but that there was a component of mindset of transforming who I was as a leader.
“you can either continue to figure it out yourself and hope and pray something does happen, or you can pay for someone or find someone who is an expert to fast track your growth”
Owning The Value He Brings
It's been, I know for so many people, this is a total rollercoaster emotionally and you feel powerless, but now that you've gotten through it, you feel like you've really mastered this process. What were the biggest wins or lessons that you want to share?
The type of connections I got to make, some of them, I never could have imagined... It gave me the confidence and allowed me to realize that I can reach out and connect with C-level executive and that they would be willing to take my call and they'd be willing to connect with me and support me.
Some referrals, a lot of referrals actually, that I ended up getting came from within the community.
I went through this massive transformation of going from the shell of myself before of not being in my power and not fully stepping into my confidence... to being on the other side now, being bold, being fully in my most powerful self and showing up in that way, knowing what I can provide, knowing how I can impact.
Now me showing up in this job, I'm not planning on staying there. I'm planning on moving way beyond that... Now I feel like the sky's the limit because I know who I am. I know the value I bring to the table. I know how big of an impact I can make. And if a certain employer doesn't see that, I now see that as, you know what, that's their loss. It's not mine. I get to find someone who can see what I bring to the table.
“I went through this massive transformation of going from the shell of myself before... to being on the other side now, being bold, being fully in my most powerful self”
“when you realize that whatever you believe to be true is what you will end up experiencing, you get the opportunity to be back in the driver's seat of seeing what is possible for you on the other side”